Caring for an Aging Parent During the Holidays

Holiday Visits With Aging Parents

Are you planning to visit your aging parents during the holidays? The global pandemic has separated families and limited face-to-face interaction to zoom sessions for those who are computer savvy. As many individuals are now happily traveling across the country to see their parents and it could be a bit of a surprise for some people.

Your parents will be happy to see you, but you might feel a bit overwhelmed to see they have aged in certain ways since you saw them last. The anxiety and stress have caused many senior citizens to develop nervous conditions and other health issues related to stress. Chances are your parents might have consumed junk food to ease their stress which has a negative effect on their health.

Tips For Visiting Elderly Parents

If you are visiting your aging parents during the holidays, here are excellent ways to get the most out of your stay.

1. Observe Your Parents

At first glance, your parents might look great but as your visit continues keep an eye out for signs of forgetfulness and other unusual symptoms. If you do notice signs, don’t panic, sometimes specific medications cause symptoms that mimic dementia or Alzheimer’s disease. You can discuss the issue with your parents and ask to speak to their doctor if needed.

2. Put the Cell Phone Away

Enjoy and cherish every moment with your parents. This means putting your cell phone down and embracing the moment. You can catch up on social media and answer emails when you go to bed, but during the day, give your parents your full attention. Do your best to have fun, laugh, and make the visit the best.

3. Check on Finances

Don’t be shy to ask your aging parents how they are doing financially. If they say they are having trouble, offer to review their finances. There are also a variety of senior programs set up that might be able to offer your parents financial assistance. Check to see what their state, county, and local community has to offer.

4. Learn more about their Prescription Medications

Ask your parents if they are taking any new prescription medications since the last time you visited. Follow up the question by inquiring if they are experiencing side effects or unusual feelings. Sometimes medications need to be adjusted to suit the patient. A small adjustment or natural alternative can improve your parent’s quality of life.

5. Help Clean the House

A common fear senior citizens may share is that they unable to keep their home up the way it used to be. Help your parent’s out by cleaning high services such as the top of the refrigerator and other hard-to-reach places. You can also fix any small problems you see around the house or schedule an appointment with a handyman to arrive after your visit.

Many senior citizens have a fear of losing their independence. This is a topic to approach carefully and with ease. Do your best not to overwhelm your parents with your concerns, but do find a nice way to tell them you just want to make sure they are happy and healthy, and are there for them if they need you. If they are long distance grandparents, help them to stay connected with grandkids as much as possible.

Your next visit to see your parents give them something to look forward to and boost their mood. If possible, schedule your next trip to ensure them you already bought the plane tickets. It will help them deal with your departure from this visit easier. Don’t forget to make memories during your visit and cherish your parent’s company!